Family Governance

The glue that holds a family together across generations. How communication, values, a family council, committees, and a Family Constitution prevent the “three-generation” curse.

Family Governance: Where the Family Legacy Begins

Family governance is simply a system of operating and decision-making for your family and family office. Established well, it’s the glue that holds a family together through good times and bad — and the best defense against the proverbial “wealth doesn’t last three generations.”

It Starts With Communication

Governance begins with the founder communicating what they want to create and why. What is the vision and mission of this family enterprise? Which values should carry forward? How does the family stay cohesive as wealth and complexity grow? These are the questions founders wrestle with when they think about legacy — and clear communication lets every stakeholder understand the ground rules.

Beliefs and Values

Values are set early, usually reflecting the founder — but the best frameworks build in flexibility to evolve with cultural norms and each generation’s expectations. Set broad values on timeless principles so they can adapt, while keeping a few narrow, non-negotiable ones — honesty, integrity, hard work — that should never be compromised.

Structure: Council and Committees

Clear decision-making rules may feel unnecessary with a handful of stakeholders — but by the fifth or sixth generation, with a hundred-plus members, governance is mandatory. It typically starts with a Family Council that meets regularly on big-picture matters and delegates execution to the family office. Committees handle specific areas — an Investment Committee for strategy, a Strategic Planning Committee for long-term direction, next-gen engagement, and philanthropy — so the whole family need not convene for everything.

The Family Constitution

After enough discussion of values and purpose, families usually formalize a Family Constitution: the written principles, mission, and rules that guide future decisions. Typical contents include values and mission, next-gen involvement and employment criteria, philanthropy, ownership and voting rules, distribution policy, and the council/committee structure and meeting cadence — plus rules for amending the constitution itself. The more that’s decided in advance, the less is left open to conflict.

Legal Structures Are the Enforcers

A constitution states intent; legal structures enforce it. Most multi-generational wealth is held in trusts with a fiduciary trustee obligated to follow their instructions. Trusts, companies, and boards — with their legal backing — are what keep members from deviating from the founder’s principles, especially once the founder is gone. As the well-known guidance on inheritance suggests, the goal is to leave each child enough to do anything, but not so much that they can afford to do nothing.

Governance is what makes a legacy survive the founder.  An advisor can help you build the council, committees, and constitution that keep your family aligned for generations.

How IPM Advisory can help

IPM Advisory is a fiduciary advisory firm focused on financial education and planning-first investing. If you would like help applying the ideas in this article to your own situation, schedule a complimentary introductory meeting through our website.